March 11, 2014

The finishing touches

I’m already finishing with the preparation, I’ve bought and done almost everything, I’ve said good bye to a lot of people and I already can’t sleep normally. These days pass very slowly. Certainly, 7 days later, on the next Tuesday afternoon, at 4.35 pm my plane takes off (supposedly with me) and at that moment the great adventure of mine starts.

By the way, flight. I have never ever flown in my life and I can’t imagine how it looks like. Now I don’t fear it, however the truth is that a 24-hour-long flight will be a good one to start. We will transfer in Qatar, around midnight, and 2 hours later we will continue our journey to the International Airport of Narita.

We. But who precisely?
With AFS 4 students go to Japan from Hungary: Vivi, Rita, Balázs and me. Unfortunately (or not? :P) they found me host families in 4 faraway parts of Japan, thus we won’t meet regularly. 

This picture was taken before the preparatory orientation. We took a Japanese-like evening, we went to eat sushi and wandered in the city.

Everyone who was about for a longer (maybe 1-year-long) journey) knows that it takes a lot of preparation. The questions of luggage, clothing, documents and taking the money have reached me as well. But it seems like everything is under my control. Last week we went to do our visa application with Rita which was surprisingly easy – while waiting we solved a sample final examination of Japanese language.
Recently I’ve made my Visa card which is my first debit card in my life. Yeay, I’m going to look after it carefully!

I've also received a video camera with which I will document the events and seesights in Japan. If I will have the time and the chance I will create a videoblog as well where I will upload these videos. Many people made me promise to take photos about the cherry blossoming, for this aim I’ll buy a better camera in Japan. So there’s no need to worry, those who stay at home will also see the things there. :)

In these weeks I’ve experienced that not only for me, but also for my environment it is a great thing that I’m going to be an exchange student. Many people wished me good luck and encouraged me which was a huge pleasure for me. I got a great amount of love this time which I’m very grateful for. This is the reason why I’ll try to use the Internet (Facebook, Youtube, Blogger) to make my friends and family also the part of my exchange year in a way.

Of course, if it is a long journey, then to farewell parties come. The first celebration was with my class where my form teacher (or home teacher in the US) gave me a cake decorated with Japanese patterns. It was absolutely beautiful! It was heartbreaking to cut it into pieces. Also she gave me a Captain Balu figure made of marzipan. It was incredible, I was so happy!

The celebration series continued with my roommates and mates on the second floor in the youth hostel. The picture of me and my 5 roommates taken during that night is seen here. This was the last night that we spent together behind the walls of the youth hostel. After two and a half year spent, I’m going to miss them. /:

At the weekend my brother and his girlfriend came home from Pécs to say goodbye for me. They also gave me a cake with the sign „Ki o tsukete ne!” meaning „Take care of yourself!”

(At this time I was with plus 5 kilo, and after came the lunch and the dinner. But truly, I have to take the chance now, in Japan there won’t be neither roasted duck, neither sausage nor stew. This is going to be a diet for me I’m sure)

And on Saturday night with the volunteers of Békécsaba we drank a glass of orange juice as the sign of my farewell. It will be strange to leave the chapter, but here is a lot of active and motivated volunteer, they’ll be fine. :)


I’m gonna miss you, guys!

The last party will be at Budapest with other AFS volunteers and officers. I can’t wait for it, I’ve seen them for a while, it will be good to see them again. :) And after I won’t come back to Békés county, I’ll spend my last days in the capital before I leave.

Many people ask what I feel, what I think and how I live through this time. „Are you excited?” – they usually ask. Of course I do! In 7 days my childhood dream will come true, since at the age of 11 I have been wishing to travel to Japan. It’s simply incredible that this is happening. But it is, because I’m going to Japan! However it is possible that I will realise that only while I’m there.

Though it will be hard to leave everything and everyone here. Rather everyone. I’ve got so much love during this period from my classmates, friends, relatives, my mom, my sister, my dad that it will be hard to leave them here. Harder than it was meant to be.

Have I ever thought that I do not want this whole? I have. Once, when I did freak out about the exchange
year. I felt this so large, so enormous and so uncompletable. But I know that it isn’t. I don’t have to finish this in one piece, but day by day, challenge by challenge. The exchange year is a umbrella term consisted of a bunch of challenges, the happiness and memories granted for them and the language and personality development during the time spent with those challenges.  At that time I felt the borders of my comfort zone which I will really reach next week. I’m so waiting for it!

At the end of my post – notwithstanding my preparation – I’d like to commemorate of those people who lost their lives 3 years ago, in March, 2011 during the natural disaster in that day, 11 March. About 20 000 people deceased and more than 250 000 residents had to move to temporary homes.  Since then 3 years have passed. They have started to repair the roads and houses, but the wounds of the Japanese society taken this day can’t be cured completely.

One of the most famous Japanese bands, the ONE OK ROCK made a song titled Be the light so as to commemorate the deceased and injured people of the catastrophy. With this song, I’d like to finish this post: